To be established in pure awareness is enlightenment, a state of unity with everything in existence. ultimately, every life is moving in that direction. Without attaining a final goal, you can tell that you are in contact with pure awareness. If you feel truly yourself, in a state of peace and freedom. Each of these levels brings its own kind of experience. This can be easily seen when there is a sharp contrast or a sudden change. Love at first sight takes a person without warning from contracted awareness to extend awareness. Instead of relating in the normal social way suddenly you see immense appeal, even perfection, in on other person.